After 50, I still haven’t met you, but I’m not going to be with me! Zhan Qing has removed his identity as an anchor: he just wants to make himself "comfortable" every day

"I made my favorite dishes in the kitchen, and I prepared ingredients on both hands, and couldn't help but hum and dance. When my husband came home and saw me stunned for a moment. I thought he must have thought... Why did my wife become 'weird' after retirement?"

Zhan Qing jokingly talked about the leisure life now. In fact, she was not really retired, and she still had programs and wanted to teach. But after she left the anchor station, she enjoyed the appearance of slow living, just like she unconsciously stepped on the dance steps, dancing slowly along the river of life, singing her own stability and happiness before she became familiar.

Introverted shy, he was pushed to the anchor station

"When I was a shy, inner person when I was a child, I was not very good at talking to strangers. It was the kind of person who would feel uncomfortable if others looked at me more than a few more times. I think it was because I was willing to be an anchor and I would love to be able to do it for more than ten years. I think it was because I was willing to be an international club, and I cherish every opportunity given by the people and embark on the life of the anchor that I had never thought of."

Zhan Qing was very detailed in the past, and his eyes were as gentle as possible. "I thought that at the beginning, I felt as confused as all the young people after graduating from college. In order to avoid real life, I once "escaped" to the United States." But the "desergeant" didn't last long.

Appreciated her sister introduced her to "Brother Elephant Magazine", learned about her job title editor Chen Yunying, and introduced her to media boss Qiu Fusheng, to embark on her even more unexpected journey.

"Now I am hosting a program, I thought everything would be very peaceful and elegant! But for this job, I have to read the book more systematically, spend a long time understanding the author's thoughts and spirit, and still have "work pressure", but I enjoy it very much. On the one hand, I feel the diversity of the world, and on the other hand, I feel my shortcomings and study hard. This is a very pleasant experience."

It's not that she has decided, she chooses to accept the arrangement

Zhan Qingyan talked about every stage of her life, and she was always slow; but she was not in a state of trauma, but it seemed that she had let go easily.

She said that life is not difficult, but depends on whether we accept our choices.

"Some people think that my life is very "successful", because in many cases my life is not actively making choices, but being accepted passively. In fact, "choose" is the most difficult thing. I am not a very determined person and cannot respond without any response. However, because I accept passive arrangements, I give life a lot of grace, which gives me more time to observe and interact in detail."

"I also broke my head and broke for what I chose. I felt very difficult and hard at the moment, but after several decades, I would thank myself for being myself, because if I didn't fall, there would be no change."

It is difficult to be confused, so you must first affirm yourself

Zhan Qingyan said that when people are middle-aged, they will also have a lot of confusion about the future. Looking back on the past, what is the easy thing to say that you have to let go? Therefore, first of all, you must accept your choice, and then come, that is, you must affirm yourself.

"I think don't use "correct" to define anyone, including not defining yourself. Even if you choose a different path, will you be able to reach the same end? Life is different, and the process may be a bit sad, but no matter what, these all make you who is now. You who is now is important, and the pain is intentional. Thanks for happening along the way, and finally becoming me like this."

In the past few years, she has gained more enlightenment and nourishment from "reading".

"I have too many books to share with you. One of them is Dr. Yang Dingyi's "Unreasonable Happiness". Through brain science analysis, he told us that when happiness comes from the outside world, such as buying expensive clothes, or meeting other people's expectations, happiness will soon disappear, which is related to the brain structure. As long as we can break through this confusion, we can find "eternal Happiness."

From reading, we have gained full nourishment

"There is also a book that was recommended by Zeng Bao. Do you know? After reading these good books recommended by celebrities, I got one after another."

talked about Zhan Qing's love book, and it looked radiant. In fact, "books" are also the best care product for women's beauty.

"When people get from middle age to mature, I think anyone will still feel the pressure. There are many real tests and changes to face. The environment is very hard, and you don't have to make it difficult for yourself. How can you be content with your own satisfaction? In fact, when you are not content with your own success in middle age, you are just unable to get along with yourself!"

"How distinct your past business card is, it doesn't matter how much first place you have won. It's just a moment of your life. I feel special after saying goodbye to the anchor. Your past will not shine on your future. Only your heart can. You can decide what kind of mature life you want."

No matter what other people's eyes, they only care about important people

"I don't care about other people's eyes. They don't know me at all. Those who are important to me need my care. I have lived my own life well and whether my life is comfortable or not, in fact, everything is my own feeling.. ”

Zhan Qingzhang gave friends who are about to start their second life after retirement:

If you want to do something and have a lot of "helps" along the way, that's right, but if there are a lot of "reverse" and "warning", it means you have to stop, think carefully, organize yourself, and continue to move forward.

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