How can the generation where mistresses become an irreplaceable companion? Expert: Do this for the other party often

How to run marriage and feelings is a book that is unscrupulous and you will finally learn it.

How to Become an Inreplaceable Companion

I heard a lecture by Professor Zhang Wenliang from Taiwan University, which was "How to Become a Sweet Man", which tells a short story: While reading books in the United States, he went to the professor's house as a guest. The professor kept saying to his wife: Ninni, Ninni. As soon as he shouted at Nini, the lady immediately came to him.

Professor Zhang couldn't help but ask this American professor with curiosity, is Ninni the name of his mother? The American professor explained: Nini means "NEED" in English. When I need my wife, I called her like that and she came. In fact, this is also his secret to his wife.

This reminds me of every time my husband calls my name, I will fly to him, for example, seeing cockroaches, or stepping on dog poop at home, and he will always call me. This feeling of being needed is a very fulfilling feeling, and of course you must also have a very rich love, be willing to be happy and give to him.

Why can my mother be content with her?

Professor Zhang of course also studied why the teacher and mother can be content with her? Professor Zhang said, "Tell me sweetly." It is obvious that the professor must be a person:

1. When talking to his wife, he will definitely put his "heart" in his mind. He admires his wife very much, not only with his eyes, but also with his words to praise him. Professor Zhang said that he did not have a TV at home, but he and his wife had a careful conversation with each other.

2. The standard of love, take a walk together every day and have a careful moment.

3. Professor Zhang often reads books. Of course, he believes that philology is important. Most people look for fresh and interesting topics, often talk and chat with their partners, and don’t do it, “When you see friends, you have endless topics, and when you see friends, you are silent.” In short, speaking love words, one writes love books, and one loves.

Especially the first point is to be a "sensitive" lover. Professor Zhang believes that "sensitive" means, just like "inner lens", which can see through what the other person thinks and needs in his heart and meet his needs. He never compared it, never suggested it, he said: because the people who make suggestions never made decisions.

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How to become an irreplaceable companion?

After listening to Professor Zhang's speech, he was very grateful. I remembered that my husband was an English teacher at the "English Club" of the Third Military Hospital last Friday. I just got to be a young teacher. Every time I get to be a young teacher, everyone discusses the issue. I am asking everyone to talk about how to be a kind companion, how to win your partner, or how to be an irreplaceable companion.

Jimi, who was thirty-six, fired the first shot. His baby was to "apologize first", and he could calm down all disputes no matter who was wrong. Because home is a place to talk about love, not a place to talk about reason. And what he said about apology means, I'm sorry that something unhappy for each other. But it doesn't mean you are wrong. His words are really wise.

Many married couples will be "cold" when they are alive, and they can be seen but ignored by the same house. At that time, give the other party another platform.

Many couples who have been married for many years complain that their husbands will not talk sweetly.

There is a classmate's husband who kept praising his wife in front of everyone one day. The beautiful Meileti said that the husband would only say it when he was drunk. The very elegant and beautiful Lisha said that her fiancé paid more than her, and her married classmates laughed and said that if you look at it after marriage, you will know. There is such a big difference between before and after marriage.

Finally concluding: Everyone needs the recognition, praise and replies that come with them.

Nowadays, "miss threes" are popular. They are very willing to favor men, very good at saying sweet words and praise men. Some men with no character, once they are implicated, often forget where they are.

So we trained ourselves as "irreplaceable" companions. What we understood him best was his stomach, and the tacit understanding between the two people who could see each other's thinking. Becoming a husband and wife is not easy, with the goal of "becoming an irreplaceable companion". Therefore, how to engage in marriage and feelings is an indescribable book, and you will finally learn it.

Responsible editor: Chen Yaomei