I look very young, why did he give me a seat? Confession of a 60-year-old: "It seems that we are the only ones who don t realize their age."

This book is based on the building of the Silver Hair Community. The author of the 60s recorded his own self and senior residents of his generation (over 50 years old, under 70 years old).

The silver hair community is suitable for retirees, but the author who joined the industry only because of economic considerations soon realized that she was not ready to integrate into this world with an average age of over 80 years old, and chose to move out more than two years later. During the stay, the author, who is young, dressed up and had a childish taste, deeply felt that he was repeatedly "aging" in various daily situations. She experienced the dissync between her inner heart and reality, and ate, walk and talked with other senior elderly people, and was tolerant, warm and encouraged by her elders.

Although it was Saturday's lunch time, everyone came out, and it seemed like they didn't have to eat. However, I was leaving after lunch early, so the same might be true in their eyes.

From the southern part of Kinki where I live, I went to the studio located in Seoul Seoul, and I had to transfer the car twice. After getting on the car after the first transfer, I mixed into the crowd and grabbed the handle of the car. I found that no matter whether the people sitting or standing were staring at the phone, no one was looking at each other. I think this situation that does not look at each other may be more comfortable for some people!

I stuffed my phone into my bag, looked at my reflection in the car window, and found that it seemed that I was the only one standing quietly with my head raised.

At this moment, a man sitting in front of me stood up rustlingly. I thought he was going to get off the car, so I let him go, but I didn't expect him to hold my sleeve.

"I'll sit here." He pulled me very often, so he pulled me down.

"Wait a minute, why did he want to let me be present?" This sentence ran out of my mouth. No! He got off the car if he wanted to get off the car. Why did he take me down?

I felt a little uncomfortable sitting in my seat. My feet were tight, with my waist straight, no backrest, and my hands were tightly clamped. The man who seated me not only did not stop at the next stop, nor moved to other places, but pressed something like a golf bag on his legs and stood in front of me.

While wearing a baseball cap and a mask at the beginning, how could he tell that I was an old man?

Do I know this person? I glanced secretly and found that the other party was a strange man in his forties. It seems that he is going to give me something. I have never been allowed to be on a bus or on a motor vehicle, and I began to think about all the reasons why I might be allowed to be allowed to be allowed in my brain. However, among the many possible reasons, there is only one that applies to me now.

Because I am an old man?

This is the only reason, but I don’t look like a high-age person either! I was wearing a denim pants, horse boots, a black hoodie, and a so-called flying clip. I had a black baseball cap my son had worn before, and even a mask. My whole face only showed my eyes and my hair was not white at all.

There was always a voice in my heart asking "What's going on?" while I was also in an awkward state, waiting for the man to get off the car. I don't think why, I always think that when the man got off the car, the fact that he gave me would disappear. Now I finally understand why people want to destroy the certificate.

After arriving at the destination and walking on the slope leading to the studio, my mood was still very strange. It was a bad or bad mood, not happy or unhappy, and difficult to describe.

I was so surprised by being called grandma, as if only I didn't realize it until the age of age.

"You said someone asked you to have someone give you?"

"This is a good thing! That person has a good eye, and he can tell that you are an old man." When I arrived earlier than me, I heard what happened on the car, and I felt very noisy. These people are obviously the same age as me in another two or three years.

"I've hidden it so well, how did he see it?" The friend who lived in the comforting ceremony looked me up and down and clapped his hands.

"I understand, it's your eyes, because your eyes look sunken. Your eyes are more prominent, but now they look sunken, so I'm just giving you the other person."

"It means I look tired?"

"No, it looks old."

"As he said, his friends continued to show off their faces and began to tell their stories. A friend who lives in Wei Rong said that once she met a young mother with a child in the elevator. When the child wanted to get out of the elevator, the mother opened her mouth and said, "You have to let grandma go out first." A friend who lives in Wei Rong said that she was about to go to a wedding at that time, and she had a hairstyle, makeup, and high heels.

"I think it seems that we are the only ones who don't realize their age. Once, a child looked at my hand and said, "The teacher's hand is the same as my grandma's." Indeed, I'm not just a teacher, but I'm already grandma's age."

said this passage from a friend who lives in Guangzhou. She is a regular teacher with a model figure and a persistent dress in high-end formal clothes.

Maybe we all know it well, but we just pretend not to know that we are old.

"But you shouldn't have been let out of the seat, right?" The whole studio burst into laughter when he heard me.

It is very likely that we are the only ones who don’t realize that we are old yet. No, maybe we all know it well, but we just don't know it if we pretend.. Is it because this is an era when we are unfriendly to the elderly that we deliberately do not think that we are slowly getting older?

The person who is my parents will happily accept the fact that I am old after I am 50, but even if I am 60, I still need to know that I am old through other people's behavior. If our generation is not broken, we really don’t feel it! In short, we all need to slowly learn how to be an elderly person.